RSL understands that all meaningful relationships have a foundation of honesty and integrity and we believe that every relationship with any integrity has a reason; and lasts a season or a lifetime.

We understand that you want to be accepted for who you are. To achieve this we match your own spiritual beliefs and interests with that of potential partners, who share your desire to lead a spiritual life or who is focused on the importance of holistic living. Whether you are starting to investigate or are already committed to a life of spirituality, RSL is dedicated to finding your ideal partner.

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Why Spiritual Dating?

Welcome to the gentle diverse world of spirituality.

Spirituality is a way of life, not a religion.

Spirituality strives to understand, not mock; encourage; not ridicule; expand not contradict.

The world in which we live is changing and peoples' perception of spirituality is too. People on this site come from all walks of life; from the artisan to the professional. Diversity allows for individuality.

RSL celebrates the devotion to life itself.

If you are only taking your first tentative steps or have been following the spiritual path for years; here is an opportunity to find someone to share either a part or the entire journey with.


Our Story

RSL was born out of necessity, I found myself single after a long term relationship had ended and I wanted to find a partner that was open-minded and supportive of my spiritual beliefs. I was aware that spiritually came in all sorts of guises; I was excited by the prospect of seeking and sharing new ones.

The problem was knowing where to find that special someone? I was surprised by the poor quality of matches I was being offered from the popular dating sites and quickly saw that there was a gap in the market for a matchmaking web site with integrity.

I realised that if I wanted a website that was more sincere, more professional and able to cater for peoples specific beliefs I would have to do it myself.

RSL is not an off the shelf package but a specifically written web site; catering for people individually.

RSL is more like old fashioned matchmakers; you try, you savour and if necessary move on. Quantity does not equate to quality. I want to bring integrity back to matchmaking and I want to encourage friends to introduce single friends and pass a little bit of heaven here on earth.

It is true that all meaningful relationships come along for a reason. Some last a season and some a lifetime but true connections enhance and enrich our lives.

- Allyson


About Reason Season Lifetime

I was sent this particular poem one Friday afternoon and it had such a profound effect upon me. I then contemplated all the relationships I had had in my life and knew that I could categorize all of them in a heartbeat. Granted they did not all fit into the ones that I had initially hoped for but knew if I was totally honest with myself that they were right where they needed to be.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you are a reason, a season or a lifetime.

- Unknown


Why Join?

RSL is a unique dating site. How you ask?

You may have tried the quick-fix instant matches; now try RSL who are bringing integrity back to matchmaking.

People ask, "What can we do to make the world a friendlier place?" I would say "One click at a time."

Over the last couple of years a lot of people have jumped onto the dating bandwagon with their off-the-shelf packages complete with its drop in photos, gimmicks and the ever essential ready-made membership database. This has left a lot of people wanting and slightly cynical.

I believe that it's not too late to introduce a site which brings integrity back to matchmaking. I hope to give you that safe environment which everyone needs to get to know someone, which some sites have taken away.

RSL is the brainchild of one woman who wants to give the opportunity for like-minded people to meet whilst making people aware that spirituality is still appropriate in modern society. Spirituality is not a religion but more how we interact with others and nature.